Mindset matters

by | Feb 4, 2022

Hi there! I’m glad you dropped by.

Do you know that feeling where no matter how hard you try, the thing you want to make happen just isn’t working?

Or maybe the thing you did well enough before just doesn’t work for you now.

Either way, you feel stuck and frustrated as a kid looking through the window of a closed candy store.

How are you going to fix this?

Do you even think you can?

– Warrior Soul Sisters (C)

Mindset matters.

Are you ready to change yours?

Let’s begin at the beginning –

Finding out why something isn’t working out for you is the first step. People often think it must be something about their abilities. Oh, that negative inner voice! Maybe I’m doing it wrong? If I just try harder, sleep less or….


Stop right there.

As soon as you get down on yourself and even consider bartering sleep away, you can safely assume you are heading in the wrong direction.

Okay, so what’s happening here?

Maybe it isn’t the right thing for you, even if you really, really think it is. You’re effectively banging your head on a brick wall and expecting to get good results.

What to do?

Let’s start simply. I love the easy stuff, don’t you?

Talking the situation through with someone can help because sometimes, just saying things out loud can help bring clarity. Yup. It could be that simple.

Other times a new perspective will open up “aha” moments and even shine a light on some new possibilities for you. This could be your step two. If you need some help in reaching clarity and talking about it with a friend is not an option, or is not getting you anywhere, you may need a coach!

We can circle back to that in a bit.

The third thing you can do is make a map of where you are now, where you want to be (once you are sure you know where that is), when and – here’s the important part – how you are going to get there!

If you are confident about this step, go for it! Don’t wait. Get busy now to save yourself a whole lot of time later.

Your ultimate level of success depends on what you feel able to do and the steps you are willing to take. That’s where a skilled coach can really help you to identify where the ‘stuck’ is, why it’s there and how to move out of it.

So, what would it take for you to shift your mindset, get out of your own way and make some magic happen?

Spencer Silva said (below)…

I have a favor to ask. Talk to me. Tell me what are YOU stuck on? What change do you want to be? Comment below to let me know what you’d like to have in your life, your dreams, your wishes and ALL of those “if only.”

Let’s chat. I’m listening – Mikki.

About Mikki Gaffen Stone
Michaela brings her natural intuition to each and every client. Formerly known to everyone as "The Compassionate Coach", Michaela views the world through a deeply compassionate lens. Her mission is to facilitate the rise of SELF-CARE in place of broken Health Care. Empowering each person towards lasting & improved health while developing a heartfelt understanding of the intrinsic rightness of themselves and sense of worthiness, Michaela is changing lives one operson at a time. YOU are that important, YES.


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